Who chooses my life partner, me or God?

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Who chooses my life partner, me or God?
Firstly, if you are willing to study the account in Genesis without what I call a traditional bias, you will notice that even for Adam God did not choose. The problem is that the truth in there is too much for a lot of Xtians to agree with. But, check it yourself with an unbiased and unreligious mind.

UNVEILING NIGERIA’S MOST GLAMOUROUS PASTORS’ WIVES

The late afro-beat maestro once sang a song with a line that says “Pastors Wife naim dey fine pass” These pretty women are behind these successful men of God. Their husbands pastor renowned churches with branches within and outside Nigeria. As wives of these celebrated men of God, their outstanding lives and edgy style have not escaped notice.
Save for their ministerial duties, many of them would pass for socialites, no thanks to their predilection for colourful attire, matching accessories and enchanting persona.
Earning praise and admiration from all quarters, they do not leave their admirers bereft of reasons to adore them. In no particular order, the under-mentioned are some of the most visible of the lot.

JOHN MIKEL OBI’S EXCLUSIVE INTERVIEW…..”ONLY GOD CAN FIND ME A WIFE” + THE DAY CHELSEA BIG BOYS INITIATED ME

THE JOHN MIKEL OBI EXCLUSIVE INTERVIEW
“ONLY GOD CAN FIND ME A WIFE
==DAY CHELSEA BIG BOYS INITIATED ME
==ADDRESSES RUMOURS OF OWNING FIVE BENTLEYS
==I AM NOT THE NEW JAY JAY OKOCHA
==AGENT, JOHN SHITTU IS MY SOUL MATE
Last week I met Chelsea FC and Super Eagles Midfield Star JOHN MIKEL OBI, real name John Michael Nchekube Obi. There’s really very little need to introduce this guy as he needs very little introduction even Internationally. Nigeria’s biggest name in International Sports today, the richest, the most popular and he’s added huge achievements to his CV. So, best to just meet him now and read his most revealing Interview ever, he addresses all issues, even the most personal and he answers them very frankly: The issue of Marriage, His having Five Bentleys, All footballing issues, EVERYTHING.
ENJOY

==DAY HE WAS INITIATED BY THE CHELSEA BIG BOYS
In Chelsea before each game we always have a motivational speech from one of the members of the team and it takes a MAN to make that kind of speech, and they have been asking me that Mikel you have to start making this speech because you are becoming an important player in the Team, this was in my third season at the Club,, it’s the right time to make the speech they kept reminding me. So I said okay, I am going to give the speech.

CELEBRITIES WHO WEDDED SECRETLY LAST YEAR

Marriage has been known to be a thing of joy ever since the creation of the first couple and even the bible says ‘he that finds a wife found a good thing’ so also is a woman that finds herself a good husband. However, for various reasons, marriage to some people is not supposed to be publicized as they prefer to have theirs in secrecy. Relationship-Counsellor brings to you the list of celebs who secretly tied the marriage knot this year. Please enjoy.
CHIDI MOKEME
Gangling actor and ex-anchor of Gulder Ultimate Search, Chidi Mokeme is among the celebrities who bid goodbye to bachelorhood this year, however, in secrecy, as he invited only those who are close to him for the event.
The top actor who decided to join the league of married men after forty years, tied the marriage knot in a 2-1 wedding. It started with a grand traditional wedding and he later said “I Do’ to his heartthrob Jane Chinwe Olumba at Our Saviour’s Church Lagos, while the reception was held at the Muson Center.

WHAT DOES EASTER MEANS TO YOU?

Easter is here again! with activities ranging from Musical Concerts, Religious activities, Comedy Shows...But one question that we have failed to ask ourselves is what is the true meaning of Easter? For some it is the time to drink and hang out,for others, it is a to rest, while for some it is a time to travel...
Easter is a time when Christians in the world over celebrate the death, burial and resurrection of our Lord Jesus Christ. We are the reason for the season. He died that we might live life to the full. Easter is actually the time of reflecting on you relationship with the Savior. It is a time of Love, Agape, that is what Christ symbolizes. His death gave us access to the best of life...

Should We Adopt?

Do you remember the next line to that old children’s rhyme? Here’s a hint: it had something to do with a “baby carriage”.

From early childhood on, the concept of falling in love, getting married, and then starting a family has been a part of the fabric of our culture. Of course, the parameters of that fabric have changed a bit over the years. According to the most recent data available from the U.S. Census Bureau, the so-called “traditional family” (a husband and wife who had only been married to each other and were parents) accounted for just 25 percent of all households in this country. But while those numbers may have shifted, another statistic has definitely not – the number of children living with adoptive parents


It is estimated that approximately 1 million kids in the U.S. currently live with adoptive parents. In addition, another 500,000 or so are in foster care, with close to one fourth of those children available for adoption.

Dubai wedding: Angry Fan Blasts Tuface Idibia

Please read the angry Letter 2face from a fan

"I never knew or comprehend that Mr 2face Innocent Idibia had this spirit of Wickedness in him. We have been encouraging him even he was nothing till now that he felt that he has arrived.

2Face, We all bought every CD you has ever played, paid for all the shows your attended, devout our time to listen to all your songs, even when the songs may not meet out expectations, as an encouragement we continued to listen to them.

Yet you didn’t show us appreciation. 2Face, Let me ask you a question. How many Arabs has bought your CDs or listen to your any of your songs?Annie Macaulay’s Parents are not Arabs as to say your choose Arab-land because of proximity to her Parents.

Top 5 best exercises to lose belly fat

People desperate to lose weight will willingly starve themselves, take expensive supplements or do the latest fad diet that promises to give them that flawless figure in 30 days. Thankfully, belly fat is metabolically active and easier to lose. However, if proper nutrition is not observed and the resort is made to low calorie diets, weight loss may not happen within the desired time frame. Hunger and calorie deprivation will eventually kick in and dieters confronted with that favorite food they have been avoiding will have the tendency to binge at the first opportunity. The likelihood of gaining more weight than they originally lost is not far-fetched.

How to make your ‘Wedding Night’ a Memorable One!

It's your first night as husband and wife. Make it unforgettable with these intimate tips.
The best part of your wedding just may happen after the guests go home and you slip out of your fancy clothes. After all, it's your wedding night and the two of you want to be alone together. You want to make it special, but you don't want to burden it with too-high expectations.
"Today, there seems to be more pressure to make this night amazing and to do something that's ‘wow'—perhaps because many people live together before getting married," says Ava Cadell, Ph.D., a sex and relationship therapist in Los Angeles and the author of 12 Steps to Everlasting Love (Peters Publishing). "But you don't have to make a big production for it to be a wonderful time...lol. There are a lot of little things that couples can do." Here, some simple ways to make your wedding night memorable.

8 Reason Why Pre-Marital Counseling Is Important

Preparations for the wedding, in addition to providing a variety of needs weddings, the bride and groom also need to schedule and pre-marriage consultation sessions. Wedding consultations are also important, there is 8 reason it took couples counseling before marriage.

Tango Your Site to collect expert opinion about this premarital counseling. Eighty percent of experts agree that couples who have premarital counseling are less likely to divorce. Experts say pre-marital counseling is also able to strengthen the couple's relationship after marriage.
Here are 8 reasons why couples need premarital counseling, according to relationship expert like Sue Benskey, Daniel Faust, as well as psychologist Dr. Jed Diamond.

1. Had the foresight.
Dr Diamond said, when the pair fell in love, most do not think about what will happen in the future. They focus on what happened and experienced. Enjoy the feelings of falling in love. In fact, by talking about what will happen in the next relationship, before marriage, you and your partner will be more prepared to deal with misunderstandings in the future.

2face & Annie Idibia Gets 2013 Corvette Sports Car From Senate President,David Mark

The newly wedded celebrity couple Mr & Mrs Innocent 'Tuface'Idibia got the 2-door sports car gift fron Nigerian No. 3 citizen, Senator David Mark after their wedding ceremony yesterday in Dubai.From Relationship- Counsellor,We say Congratulations to Annie and 2face!Happy Married Life!

Is Money Important in a Marriage?

Money is very important in a marriage because this will determine the success of the relationship. Without money, couples and children are affected.

Although money is not everything in a relationship, money could make or unmake a relationship. Money is very important to people especially to couples. Many relationships have failed and died a natural death because of money. Although we hate to admit it, money is often times the root of all the problems in a relationship.

When the family’s financial status becomes unstable, the relationship of couples are affected. What is worse, the kids often are the worst affected especially when they are still going to school. If money is the problem, kids are sometimes transferred to cheaper schools. The other needs are controlled and sometimes the quantity and quality of food is reduced. Extra-expenses are cut off and only the necessities are provided.

Many relationships have gone sour because of money. Couples must both have good sources of income to provide for the family’s needs. If one is earning more than the other, what usually happens is there is a conflict between the couples. This means that money is very important in a relationship, whether it is for spending or it is the principle behind it. Some couples fight because one of them does not know how to save money.
How important money is to a relationship depends on many factors:
The need of the family

At the start, couples do not have children. There are no additional mouths to feed and they can live a lifestyle that they choose to have. When kids come, changes follow. There is no problem at all if the couple is earning that much to provide well for the kids but in some situations, the couple maybe earning just enough which make life with children hard to cope with. Sometimes, the problems start from here when additional expenses are needed for the children.
The lifestyle of the family

The importance of money in a relationship sometimes depends on what lifestyle the couple or family chooses to have. Simple people often have happy relationships even with just enough money to spend. Those who aim for a more luxurious lifestyle often end up being unhappy because they choose a life that they sometimes cannot afford. If there is no more money to spend, relationships often get into trouble. This is where relationships sometimes end.
The kind of job the couple has

Of course, those who earn more could afford to have a more comfortable life than those who earn less. Problems come when the couples could not provide for the family’s needs. If there is financial problem in the family, situations change.

Money is very important in a relationship. There are lots of things that money could provide to the couples which could make the relationship better. Sometimes money could even buy happiness and joy in a relationship. The things that you buy for your love ones and the material things that you provide for them are responsible for making the relationship in a family happier. Many people think that they can be happy even without money but the truth is if you are hungry you cannot anymore say that.

Money may not be everything that could make a relationship work but it helps if couples have money to spend and enjoy life together. It is not the exact money that provides happines in a relationship but it is one of the useful tools that can make a relationship more harmonious thus happier too.

FINALLY! Tuface Idibia Weds Annie Macaulay Dubai

Innocent Ujah Idibia aka Tuface (2Face), today finally walked down the aisle with his long time fiance Annie Macaulay.

The wedding ceremony which took place at the Sefinah Ballroom of Jumeirah Beach Hotel in Dubai,United Arab Emirates had 250 in attendance including artistes and prominent people from Nigeria


Roll Call: Don Jazzy, Tunde Ednut, Banky W, Davido, DJ Tee, Eldee, Rita Dominic, Dr Sid, comedian basketmouth, Susan Peters, Ini Edo, Mike Ezuruonye, Kate Henshaw and others were present at the venue.
The groom party includes D’Banj, Iyanya, Don Jazzy, Davido, Timaya, Tony Tetuila, Faze, Sound Sultan, Hycinth Idibia, Mai Atafo and Dotun Omoteye. Larry Gaga is the best man.
The reception was held Royal Island Beach and the wedding after party at Nigerian owned club, Kiza Nite Club.

Financial Advice Married Couples May Not Want to Hear

It is not news that disagreements over finances is one of the main reasons couples end up in divorce court. Financial advice is readily available, but married couples are still fighting over money. Why? For a variety of reasons, couples appear to not want to hear the financial advice. Here is financial advice that married couples often ignore.

Should parents play a role in deciding their child's future?

I believe that parents should play a role in deciding their child's future because a parent is the one that a child looks up to. We made those children by struggling and by having sex with our partner. Children should look up to us so then we can teach them how to do things like having sex and doing other things. READ MORE

DUBAI AGOG FOR ANNIE AND TUFACE IDIBIA

ANNIE & TUFACE MOVE A-LIST ARTISTES TO DUBAI

After a classy traditional marriage ceremony pen ultimate weekend at Eket, Akwa Ibom State, all is now set for the fairy tale wedding of Africa’s biggest singer Innocent ‘Tuface’ Idibia to his African queen, actress Annie Macaulay in Dubai, the United Arab Emirates. Tuface and Annie are expected to exchange marital vows less than 24hrs from now in a grand ceremony which will be witnessed by a galaxy of Nigerian showbiz stars already in Dubai for the wedding taking place this Saturday, March 23^rd, 2013. It is expected that Governor Godswill Akpabio of Akwa Ibom and ‘Tuface’s Governor, Gabriel Suswam of Benue State, will be among the guests who will grace the event

MUST I GET MARRIED TO THE PERSON THAT LOVES ME OR LOVE THE PERSON I MARRY?

When it comes to the issue of marriage and finding the right partner, a lot people get it wrong. It is common place to her people say things like '' I don't love him or her''. But the truth remains that it is not compulsory that we marry the one we love. The key factor here is to 'love the one we marry'. Having one thing at the back of your mind that love grows.

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