Wedding consultations are also important, there is 8 reason it took couples counseling before marriage.Tango Your Site to collect expert opinion about this premarital counseling. Eighty percent of experts agree that couples who have premarital counseling are less likely to divorce. Experts say pre-marital counseling is also able to strengthen the couple's relationship after marriage.
Here are 8 reasons why couples need premarital counseling, according to relationship expert like Sue Benskey, Daniel Faust, as well as psychologist Dr. Jed Diamond.
1. Had the foresight.
Dr Diamond said, when the pair fell in love, most do not think about what will happen in the future. They focus on what happened and experienced. Enjoy the feelings of falling in love. In fact, by talking about what will happen in the next relationship, before marriage, you and your partner will be more prepared to deal with misunderstandings in the future.
2. More focused.
According to Dr. Diamond, a couple who have a good knowledge of the marriage will benefit in the future. They will be able to live a better relationship, in five, 10, 20, 40 years.
3. There is no marriage that is not vulnerable.
Anyone need advice and counsel, not to mention an experienced marriage counselor 40 years as Dr. Diamond. If he still feel the need for advice and input from others, especially lay people who have no knowledge of the relationship.
4. Better than post-marriage counseling.
Once you are married and your spouse find a mismatch, then decided to divorce. Previously you pass through stages of marriage counseling. This possibility can be minimized if you and your partner have first past the stages of consultation before entering marriage.
5. Financial review with a more purposeful.
Financial issues is crucial that couples need to be discussed before marriage. What is the condition also financial planning in the past, present and future. Budget, saving and spending importantly discussed before marriage. The goal is that, the issue is not financially damage the relationship of married couples. This is the importance of the guidance counselor because not easy to discuss financial issues were alone without a chaperone.
6.Reducing the risk of divorce.
Studies in 2006 by Stanley and Amato, noted couples who undergo premarital counseling, divorce is less likely (31 percent). Faust said that premarital counseling reduces divorce risk of 50 percent to 20 percent.
7. Improve marital satisfaction.
Premarital counseling helps couples communicate also identify their concerns, desires, beliefs, values, dreams, needs and other living expenses are mostly avoided or ignored.
Faust said, it empowers couples premarital counseling to discuss the source of marriage problems before they get to pursue this relationship. This helps improve the stability of marriage, togetherness and trust. So the married couples able to get through tough times, every day in married life.
8. Having the ability to resolve conflict.
Once again, a healthy relationship begins with good communication. Matter what happens in the pairwise relations, including marriage stem from communication problems. In addition to the low ability of couples seeking solutions to problems and resolve conflicts. You and your partner can learn how to communicate better and improve the capacity to resolve conflict, before marriage through premarital counseling.
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Premarital counseling helps couples in improving their relationship before marriage. It improves the ability of communication, sets realistic expectations for marriage.
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I live in USA a country where Divorce cases seems to be the order of the day,i was married to my husband Lawson for 18 years and we were living happily together with our 3 kids and all of a sudden their came this sad moment for the first time in my life i curt my husband having an affair with a lady outside our marriage before this time i have already started noticing strange behavior like he used to spend some time with us, comes home early after work but since he started having an affair with this lady all his love for his wife gone and he now treats me badly and will not always make me happy.I had to keep on moving with my life never knowing that our marriage was now leading to divorce which i can not take because i love Lawson my husband so much and i can't afford to loose him to this strange Lady,i had to seek a friends advice on how i could resolve my marriage problem and make the divorce case not to take place and my husband live this Lady and come back to me again having heard my story my friend decided to help me at all cost she then referred me to A spell caster named Priest Ajigar, my friend also told me that Priest Ajigar have helped so many people that were going through divorce, and also finding possible ways to amend their broken relationship. To cut my story short i contacted Priest Ajigar and in just four days after the spell was done my husband left the other lady and withdrew the divorce case all till now my husband is with me and he now treats me well and we are living happily together again all appreciation goes to Priest Ajigar i never could have done this my self, so to whom it may concern if you are finding difficulty in your relationship or having problems in your marriage just contact Priest Ajigar he is Powerful and his spell works perfectly,i am somebody who never believed or heard about spell but i gave it a try with Priest Ajigar and today every thing is working well for me and if you need his help his email is (priestajigarspells@live.com)
I live in USA a country where Divorce cases seems to be the order of the day,i was married to my husband Lawson for 18 years and we were living happily together with our 3 kids and all of a sudden their came this sad moment for the first time in my life i curt my husband having an affair with a lady outside our marriage before this time i have already started noticing strange behavior like he used to spend some time with us, comes home early after work but since he started having an affair with this lady all his love for his wife gone and he now treats me badly and will not always make me happy.I had to keep on moving with my life never knowing that our marriage was now leading to divorce which i can not take because i love Lawson my husband so much and i can't afford to loose him to this strange Lady,i had to seek a friends advice on how i could resolve my marriage problem and make the divorce case not to take place and my husband live this Lady and come back to me again having heard my story my friend decided to help me at all cost she then referred me to A spell caster named Priest Malawi, my friend also told me that Priest Malawi have helped so many people that were going through divorce, and also finding possible ways to amend their broken relationship. To cut my story short i contacted Priest Malawi and in just four days after the spell was done my husband left the other lady and withdrew the divorce case all till now my husband is with me and he now treats me well and we are living happily together again all appreciation goes to Priest Malawi, i never could have done this my self, so to whom it may concern if you are finding difficulty in your relationship or having problems in your marriage just contact Priest Malawi he is Powerful and his spell works perfectly,i am somebody who never believed or heard about spell but i gave it a try with Priest Malawi and today every thing is working well for me and if you need his help his email is (spellofsolutiontemple@yahoo.com)
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I am very happy today for what God used (Dr aluda) the great spell caster to do in my life. My name is Josie Stefan i had a fight with my husband in the past which led to our breakup. I tried all i could to make him come back to me but he refuse and said it was over between us, one day i came across a testimony on the internet on how (Dr aluda)used his spell to reunite two lovers so i decided to contact (Dr aluda) via email and he assured me that my wife will come back to me within 12 to 16 hours after he has finish the preparation of the white magic spell. I am very glad today to tell the world that (Dr aluda) is truly a man of his words because my husband came back to me and fell on his knees begging me to forgive him and accept him back. Do you have a problem then also contact (Dr aluda) via email aludaspelltemple@gmail.com today and get your problems solved, so he can also help you with the following.
* GETTING YOUR EX LOVER BACK.
** DIVORCE SPELL.
*** WINNING LOTTERIES.
**** PREGNANCY SPELL.
***** GETTING OF JOB.
****** CHILD BEARING.
******* MONEY SPELL
I wish you all good luck and once more thanks to Dr (Dr aluda)
I remember this time many year ago when my life was a mess, I couldn't boast of anything and many people hate me even when they don’t get close to me yet. I have lived a life of endurance and heartbreak and I am used to breakups, I have never had a relationship that lasted for more than a year. My lover’s always get tired of me for no reason even when I try my best to keep them happy. All this and more keep happening to me for years and I was comfortable, I thought that I was a curse to my family and nothing can be done. I never last for 2years in every work I do. It was getting bad for me when I couldn’t afford to pay my bills and buy meal, no friend or family members that cared for me financially. So I made up my mind to fight this evil spirit that I suspected that was on me but my effort wasn’t enough before my mother gave me an email of a spell doctor named Doctor aluda . Dr. aluda looked into my case and discovered so many demonic spirit and destroy their powers, he purified my environment with his love spell within 7 days. I was happy when the man I love most called me (after 1 year of breakup) that we should makeup and forget about the past, I also got back my dream job after one week of the spell. People that hatted me love me now and my Family always checks up on me. Everything happened so fast like I was watching a movie and I was so surprised that a man can have such power to reunite broken heart no matter the years. I am so grateful to Dr. aluda and I am joining others to share this testimony and his email for someone who still have doubts or in need to contact him via aludaspelltemple@gmail.com
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USA
Hello am Hayden Harriet from the UK. Am here to appreciate a man who has brought back the most precious thing back into my life .After Hayden left me for good 2years i was in deep pain and so confused because i truly loved him so much because he meant a lot in my life,So i was at a shop one day buying somethings when i was listening to the radio hearing a lady talking about Dr Aluda on how he has helped her in bringing back her ex,lover i was like truly this Dr Aluda has really been the talk of UK now So which then i got home and had a re think about contacting this spell caster So then i got his contact when i went to meet them at the radio station,They gave me dr Aluda cell number and email id,Then i decided to contact him and i explained to Dr Aluda how my Husband left me for good 2years,He told me not to worry that he would surly bring back Hayden into my life within 5days i was so happy when i had that i was thinking if truly what Dr Aluda is saying is true So then i said if he was a scam people would not talk good about him in an international radio station here in the UK,What baffled me the most was that before the 5days completed i already got an email from Hayden begging me,i was like are you sure this email his real,i was doubting then the next thing was a call from Hayden telling me he is in front of my door i rushed to the door i opened it and saw Hayden standing and crying for me to forgive him which i did,i forgive him and he was so happy and promise to be with me forever,This happened due to the help of this great man Dr Aluda,Please friend Dr Aluda has brought back happiness into our life in the UK how wish we could give him an award for the great thing he has done for us in the UK.Dr Aluda is a man to contact for help please don't fall victim into the hand of scam Dr Aluda is here to help and a living testimony to his great work contact him on his private mail aludaspelltemple@gmail.com
Husbands really need to be careful of other woman outside their marriage,this was a true life story that happened to me to my own notice my sister took my husband from me the Husband whom i have love so much and promise me that no woman will take him from me but all of a sudden things turned apart if not for my friend hear in USA that told me i needed a spell caster that can cast a spell to separate them maybe by now he must have went for a divorce which could have made me commit suicide because i loved him so much likewise like him also but how things turn around was a thing that surprised me.
I vowed that any thing it could cost me i must separate him and my elder sister i then collected the contact of this spell caster from my friend Mary she told me his name is dr aluda and his email is aludaspelltemple@gmail.com i contacted him and narrated the whole story to him he consulted and found out that my sister visited a spell caster that casted a spell that made him love her i then ask him what to do he told me that this spell needed to be broken so that my husband can leave her alone and come back to me the spell was broken and within three days he began to hate her that he even beat her up before he said to her that it is over between him and her right now my husband is with me again and take good care of me like he have never done before i thank my friend Mary but i own all thanks to dr aluda for bringing back my husband and i therefore for advice that if you notice any strange behavior in your marriage or your boy friend or girlfriend is cheating you contact dr aluda to know the root of it he will surely help you out and give an everlasting solution to it.his email address again is aludaspelltemple@gmail.com
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Hi everyone, am Vanessa Jacobs, am from south hill, ohio, u.s.a. Have you just experience the wonders of Dr aluda that have been spread on the internet and worldwide on how he marvelously helped people all over world to restored back their marriage and get back lost lovers, and also helping people get job and money spell. It was one beautiful day, when i contacted him after going through his testimonies from different countries. I told him about how my husband abandoned me
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and making promises on phone. He came home and i let him in and also took me to his bank and change all his details to mine and also got me a new car just for him to proof his love for me. I was so happy and called Dr aluda and thanked him very much for his powerful spell. He only told me to share the good
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Hello Every one that read my testimony i know that this are websites for prayer and i don't want to abusive here or may be you think am here to make advert i just want to share this life experience with you all most of you might not believe in spell casting or think it evil which is never so that was what i also think at the first stage but when i get close to it i knew it never evil or bad even in the Bible there were spell caster who served God and also performs Miracle. just give it a little step of faith and things will change back for you. Am here to testify what this great spell caster done for me. i never believe in spell casting, until when i was was tempted to try it. i and my husband have been having a lot of problem living together, he will always not make me happy because he have fallen in love with another lady outside our relationship, i tried my best to make sure that my husband leave this woman but the more i talk to him the more he makes me fell sad, so my marriage is now leading to divorce because he no longer gives me attention. so with all this pain and agony, i decided to contact this spell caster to see if things can work out between me and my husband again. this spell caster who real told me that my husband is really under a great spell that he have been charm by some magic, so he told me that he was going to make all things normal back. he did the spell on my husband and after 5 days my husband changed completely he even apologize with the way he treated me that he was not him self, i really thank this man his name is Dr aluda he have bring back my husband back to me i want you all to contact him who are having any problem related to marriage issue and relationship problem he will solve it for you. his email is aludaspelltemple@gmail.com
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My husband and I have been married for 7 years and together for 11. We have 3 children, ages 16 months, 4 and 6. He recently left me and moved in with the woman he has been seeing for only 2 months. We have been living with my parents for a few years because I have been going through school and he has been just working security. He went through the police academy and has been having a hard time getting a police job. He is also in the Army National Guard. He was deployed in Afgahnistan Jan. 2014 – May 2015. I really think he has ptsd and depression. For the last few months he has been very distant from me and the kids. He hasn’t been hanging out with friends or doing activities he would normally do on a regular basis. He would kept saying we need to fix things. He would say I do this wrong and that. It was like he was trying not to love me. One day he’d kiss me and showed affection, we were still having sex, then the next day nothing. I’ve been trying to get him to see a counciler but he won’t. He has admitted he has PTSD and other issues but then other days he says he doesn’t. He thinks this women he is with now is his soul mate. He met her online and lied saying he has been divorced for two years. She has found out he’s married and still wants to be with him. I don’t see it working out. I love my husband so much, I hate what he has done. I just wish he would get some help if it is because of PTSD and depression. Do you think it might be? I still want him back. I was totally devastated and confused until a old friend of mine told me about a spell caster on the internet Chief Nwaluta Mallam Zack who help people with the relationship and marriage problem by the powers of love spells, at first I doubted if such thing ever exists but decided to give it a try, when I contact him, he helped me cast a spell and within 48hours my husband came back to me and started apologizing, now he has stopped going out with that lady and he his with me for good and for real. i want You my friends who are passing through All this kind of love problem of getting Back their husband, wife , or ex boyfriend and girlfriend to contact him on this Email: { Nwalutaspelltemple@gmail.com } you can also contact him on his website http://nwalutaspelltemple.yolasite.com . Thanks you Chief , i will always be testifying about your good work.
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A shocking testimony of how i got back my husband. Getting him back after separation was a very difficult issue for me because he went to settle down with another lady, i already had two children for him already. I have tried to make contacts with him to come back home yet he refuse, each time i look at his kids i become more sad and i needed him at my side to raise the children together. I was so lucky i finally got the help i needed, i went on a search and i saw Priest Ajigars contact.. People say he is a very powerful spell caster that he can put an end to relationship problem, fertility issues, causes that disturb destiny, he is also good in curing different diseases. He is such a special man gifted with powers and reliable spell caster that have a cure to most problems of life. My husband is back to me and we are living happily as it used to be, Priest Ajigar have done what i could never have done with my own powers, i'm also very happy that i will have a very lovely Xmas with my family here is USA. Here is his email in case you need help too (priestajigarspells@live.com)
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